If all men ceased to exist I’d still ‘be’ sexy. I’d still color and stroke my lashes and lips. I’d still get minimally clad when it’s hot. Anyone or any body can be sexy but it is in my latin blood. It feels Good. I remember the first time I tried on sexy in 7th grade. Someone slashed my new, form fitting jacket while it hung in our classroom closet. Later on I’d be shamed or claimed for my short skirts and low cut shirts. I persisted in dressing how I pleased though I grew more uncomfortable in my skin throughout my twenties. I did not own my sexy. It’s been challenging for me to figure out how to express my sexuality more while I’m celibate. How to ground it so that even when I meet someone I want I don’t too quickly jump into their skin and lose my-self.
Moving my body is essential. Yoga and dance keeps me confident, sane and healthfully sexual. We could all benefit from releasing this energy through movement. Especially us night walkers – werewolves, cats & vamps. We get so restless. Better to feed the hunger with real nourishment rather than unfulfilling junk. I’m a highly sexual creature living in modern day hookup culture. I often feel displaced or alien. Summer in the city gives a woman reasons to turn off and not turn anyone on.
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